Adakah Anda Mudah Memaafkan?

12:03 AM

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maafkan...
Mengapa sukar untuk memberi maaf apabila hati sudah terguris? Mengapa tidak mahu melupakan disakiti? Mengapa tidak tenang dan sering berdendam apabila dihina dan diumpat? Andainya kita tidak mampu memaafkan kesalahan orang lain bererti kita belum mempunyai hati yang benar-benar bersih, kita belum menjadi seorang yang rendah hati dam pemaaf.

Lunakkan hati dengan renungan ini: Bila sukar memaafkan kesalahan orang lain bermakna kita ada sifat ego dan sombong yang dimurkai oleh Allah. Siapakah kita yang mahu merasakan diri sebagai 'tuan' dan mahu orang lain sentiasa berbuat baik terhadap kita. Bila ada orang membuat kesilapan, siapakah kita untuk marah, berdendam dan berharap dia akan menerima balasan dari perbuatannya. Setiap orang ada kelemahan dan kekurangan, termasuk diri kita. Kalau hari ini orang bersalah dengan kita, tidak mustahil suatu hari nanti kita pula tersalah dengan orang.

Apakah kita jamin yang kita tidak akan membuat salah dan silap? Kalau kita mahu memaafkan kesalahan kita, pasti orang lain pula mengharapkan kemaafan dari kita. Ingatlah bahawa semua yang terjadi ini hakikatnya adalah dari ALLAH jua. Segala kelemahan dan kesalahan manusia terhadap kita adalah ujian dari ALLAH. Dia mahu melihat apakah kita dapat menerimanya dengan sebaik-baiknya. Bila kita tetap marah dan tidak mahu memaafkan kesalahan orang lain pada kita ertinya kita marah pada ALLAH. Kita berkata "ALLAH, tidak patut Kau buat aku begini."

Bila orang bersalah dengan kita selidiklah apakah dosa yang kita lakukan sehingga ALLAH takdirkan begitu terhadap kita. Bila sedar akan kesilapan dan dosa kita sama ada terhadap manusia atau kecuian kita pada ALLAH, nanti akan datang rasa 'memang patut dihukum' dan orang yang melakukan kesilapan terhadap kita hanyalah sebagai perantaraan sahaja. Bila sedar bahawa segala kejahatan manusia terhadap kita merupakan hukum dari ALLAH, seharusnya kita bersyukur kerana dihukum di dunia. Itu juga tanda ALLAH memberi perhatian kepada kita dan mahu mengampunkan dosa-dosa kita di dunia agar terlepas hukuman yang lebih dahsyat di akhirat.

Sepatutnya ini menggembirakan kita sehingga mampu untuk kita memaafkan orang yang bersalah.

kerJa..Job

12:00 PM

susah sangat ker nak cari kerja..
dah empat kali interviu still no respond yet
nak kata pilih kerja x jugak,,,
atau nowadays kita kena ada 'orang kuat' baru boleh dapt kerja..
kadang2 some company mmg panggil applicant gi interview..
but in the mean time diorang actually dah ada calonnya..
untuk apa semua tu..
kadang2 calon2 yang dah sedia ada tu pun xboleh nak diharap..
sebab ada orang kuat yeah they get the job easily..
pernah sekali i went to pejabat kerajaan..
then ada a boy yang baru 2 weeks start kerja..
from my observation, dia di ambil sebab ada orang dalam..
bayangkanlah..dia duduk incharge computer but his IT literate weak yang sangat2
bangang nak mampus...
geram dengan orang yang nak amik pekerja ni..
suka merendah-rendahkan orang lain..
repeat paper pun boleh jadi alasan xdapat kerja..
tensen..tensen...

THE WORLD’S BILLIONAIRES

9:03 PM

[[ EXTRACT FROM FORBES.COM]]
The World's Billionaires

Rank

Name

Citizenship

Age

Net Worth ($bil)

Residence

1

Warren Buffett

United States

77

62.0

United States

2

Carlos Slim Helu & family

Mexico

68

60.0

Mexico

3

William Gates III

United States

52

58.0

United States

4

Lakshmi Mittal

India

57

45.0

United Kingdom

5

Mukesh Ambani

India

50

43.0

India

6

Anil Ambani

India

48

42.0

India

7

Ingvar Kamprad & family

Sweden

81

31.0

Switzerland

8

KP Singh

India

76

30.0

India

9

Oleg Deripaska

Russia

40

28.0

Russia

10

Karl Albrecht

Germany

88

27.0

Germany

11

Li Ka-shing

Hong Kong

79

26.5

Hong Kong

12

Sheldon Adelson

United States

74

26.0

United States

13

Bernard Arnault

France

59

25.5

France

14

Lawrence Ellison

United States

63

25.0

United States

15

Roman Abramovich

Russia

41

23.5

Russia

16

Theo Albrecht

Germany

85

23.0

Germany

17

Liliane Bettencourt

France

85

22.9

France

18

Alexei Mordashov

Russia

42

21.2

Russia

19

Prince Alwaleed Bin Talal Alsaud

Saudi Arabia

51

21.0

Saudi Arabia

20

Mikhail Fridman

Russia

43

20.8

Russia

21

Vladimir Lisin

Russia

51

20.3

Russia

22

Amancio Ortega

Spain

72

20.2

Spain

23

Raymond, Thomas & Walter Kwok

Hong Kong

NA

19.9

Hong Kong

24

Mikhail Prokhorov

Russia

42

19.5

Russia

25

Vladimir Potanin

Russia

47

19.3

Russia

MALAYSIA’S RICHEST

8:47 PM

    

JUST A PART OF MALAYSIA'S RICHEST..

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sport

UEFA Champion League Final

3:16 AM












MAN. UNITED Win The CAhampion Leage Final





yeay..yeay.. finally the tittle of the UEFA champion went to MAnchester United after many years.. and the trophy was bringing back to England after being a long time kept at Europe.It was a dramatic match when both clubs were tied at 1-1 until the end of regulation time and also at the extra time. Yeah it's really suspended when the ball was move towards the goal area.

From my observation Chelsea's players mostly lack of dicipline. In the second period of extra time, Drogba was red carded for a slap on Nemanja Vidic, but despite the one man advantage, the Red Devil's couldn’t make the breakthrough on a heavy pitch, and so the final went to penalty kicks.


Spot penalty kicks
The Red's spot penalties were taken by Tevez, Carrick, Ronaldo, Hargreaves, Nani, Anderson and Giggs. Unfortunately, Ronaldo missed it..gosh!!

While The Blues's were taken by Ballack, Belletti, Lampard, A Cole, Terry, Kalou and Anelka. Thanx god Terry and Anelka missed them and this gave Red title to win the champion.


Man of the match

I would give this title to Van Der Sar as he had successfully saved the seventh spot penalty kicks from Anelka..and the fifth spot kick by John Terry previously.

He was the hero of yesterday match.. And it should to give this tittle to Christiano coz without his goal at the first half of the match MU probably face tougher situation to win the match.


Team Line Up

United: Van der Sar; Brown (Anderson 120), Ferdinand, Vidic, Evra; Carrick, Hargreaves, Scholes (Giggs 87); Ronaldo, Rooney (Nani (101), Tevez. Subs


Chelsea: Cech, Essien, Terry, Carvalho, A Cole, Makelele (Belletti 120)., Ballack, Lampard, Malouda (Kalou 93), J Cole (Anelka 98), Drogba. Subs not used: Cudicini, Shevchenko, Mikel, Alex.Booked: Makelele, Carvalho, Ballack, Essien
Sent off: Drogba


The match was ended by tears of Terry..


Istana Melawati

10:45 PM






Last wednesday erm.. on 14th May.. i went to KL.. actually my dad di anugerahkan pingat P.P.N stands for Pingat Pangkuan Negara.. rasanya la.. of course ada istiadat pengurniaan darjah2 seangkatan dengannya..





sebelum ni that kinda event di buat kat Istana Negara.. last 3 years my mum pun dapat pingat yang sama.. and istiadat tu dibuat di Istana negara.. this time tempat tu ditukar di Istana Melawati di Putrajaya.. tempat dia Ya ALLAH chantek seh.. besar giler kalah la rumah2 kita... lebih besar dari stadium bukit jalil.. even bigger than Istana Negara.. as i known, Istana Negara dulu was a chinese residence before government made a decision to buy it to make it as Kediaman Rasmi Yang Di Pertuan Agong.






teruja sangat dapat masuk sana.. yerlah, it's not easy for people like us to enter that palace.. i just went on the day of rehersal jer.. yg real punya xdapat nak pergi.. most of all.. bangga sangat coz both of my parents dianugerahkan darjah kebesaran tu.. as a children of course we feel proud coz we are given special person as mum and dad.. itu semua hasil kerja keras they all.. lobby2.. kipas2 do not exist to reach at the stage.. yeah.. part of malaysian they do the activity to get what they want..







erm..u know what.. on the day of rehersal.. dapatlah aku jumpa our traditional sarawakian.. coz their ears panjang sangat.. usually we just heard or watch it on tv but that day aku dapat tgk dengan real betapa panjangnyer telinga orang veteran sarawak.. i did ask them to take photo.. luckily those aunties so sporting.. that shows that Malaysian are unique.. tapi xtau pulak whether amalan telinga panjang ni still diamalkan di sarawak.. dun u ever think.. it's unique to have long ears.. those yang anting2 lovers to sure xsuke coz that can't show their anting2 at all.. yg mengerlip-ngerlip ngan berlian tu of course x nampak sangat as it only can be seen if we faced with public on.. tgk dari blkang totally x nampak..at first stage mesti sakit kan coz they have to wear anting2 yang berat untuk memanjangkan telinga.. i juz can imagine how they do that.. for me nak bertindik pun sakit..


so..this is what we call Malaysia.. we do have various of race..tradition,religion but we are under one roof.. we do share others tradition tanpa melupakan our own tradition.. we need each other to harmonized our country..

being in Istana Melawati is such a precious moment in my life.. i can learn a bit how royal family arrange their life..they have their own field for football, netball, futsal.. their own maid, interior design, driver, security guard, and they have everything in their life.. so when is ur time to go to Istana Melawati?

The Beginning

10:12 PM


it's being such a long time i took to compose this blog.. yeah, previously i wish to create one but today i made it real.. feel proud to myself..
hehehehe..

well.. i dun expect too much from the readers coz i know nobody like to read it and nobody will happy with what i'll write.. it doesn't matter with me as along as i enjoy what i'm doing..
to those bloggers like me or readers who will always read my blog do continuosly give ur support.. and ur comments too.. this will help me to improve my blog even my writing and its contents..

my blog is about life.. my life, anyone's life and malaysian life.. what is currently happen locally or internationally..

so..this is me..my blog..my taste and my way..
hopefully u'll like it..

shida
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